Ciao, amici! My holiday break officially ended last week, and for the past five days, I’ve been busy working and collecting links for you. I’ve also been spending every last second I could with my daughter, who leaves this morning to return to school. I have to admit, I have mixed feelings about that. On one hand, I miss her terribly when she isn’t here. On the other, she needs to be free to pursue her hopes and dreams. She’s an amazing person― smart, talented, hard-working, funny, and (not that it matters) beautiful. I know she’s going to accomplish great things, and I can’t wait to see what they are. So I have to let her go.
I’m blessed that I have two extraordinary children (my son is every bit as exceptional as my daughter). Doubly blessed that my son goes to college locally, so I don’t have to say goodbye to him.
Sorry. The shameless effusive praise of my kids portion of this post is over now. Moving on…
This week’s quote by Edith Lovejoy Pierce is inspired by what I hope for my kids, what I hope for myself, and what I hope for you―opportunity.
We will open the book. Its pages are blank.
We are going to put words on them ourselves.
The book is called OPPORTUNITY and its first chapter is
New Year’s Day.
I found this quote perfect for today. And I hope it inspires you throughout this year to seize all the opportunities that come your way.
And now, this week’s writing links:
Posts by me, about my work, or at sites I contribute to:
Me
Story Empire
- Document Templates in Scrivener | P.H. Solomon
- Learning More About Other Genres | Me
- Friday Book Share: Invasion Series | Me
Posts by others in the industry:
- Audiobook Creation, Part 3 | Don Massenzio
- Fixing Confusing Names | Fiction University
- Using Psychology to Enrich Fiction | The Write Practice
- Handy Writing Tips, Part 1 | Don Massenzio
- Handy Writing Tips, Part 2 | Don Massenzio
- Competitive and Market Analysis for Book Launches | Book Marketing Tools
- The Hero Lens | Writers Helping Writers
- 9 Tips for Creating Successful Antagonists | Writers in the Storm
- Tightening Your Plot | Fiction University
- Reading Tricks for Kids of Any Age | Nicholas C. Rossis
- Troubleshooting BookBub Ads | BookBub
- Crafting a Scene | Writers Helping Writers
- Choosing Titles | Don Massenzio
- Amazon Advertising via KDP | Chris McMullen
- Mystery Sub-Genres (Know What You’re Writing) | The Kill Zone
And when you’re done with these links, don’t forget to check out the sidebar, where you’ll find more links to some of my favorite sites.
Have a great week! Arrivederci!
I’m so far behind I’ve only just found this! The links look amazing and I’m truly grateful to you for putting them up for the rest of us.
Like so many of the others, I recognise that ‘sweet sorrow’ of a visit that never seems to last quite long enough. Hug your lovely relationship to your heart and know she’ll be back.
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I’m behind, too. I can’t believe this month is almost over. That’s 1/12 of the year! And so much to do…
Ah, that sweet sorrow. That’s a perfect description. Those visits never do last long enough, do they?
Glad you’ve found the links useful. 🙂
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Ah, yes, the return of routine, because that helps to keep up with things (unless one procrastinates, then nothing seems to help 😀 ) My kids are both back off to college as well, but college is within an hour’s drive. At least you have the chance to spend some quality time with her; my kids ended up working afternoons and evenings, when I’m home from work.
Still can’t bring myself to put the lights away. I love Christmas lights! 🙂
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We (and by we, I mean I) undecorated this past weekend. My son did disassemble one tree and he schlepped everything to the garage for me. I blame my daughter. She insisted on putting up all four trees (which I was adamantly opposed to) then she left without taking down a single ornament. It would have gone a lot faster if I had had help. But I had such a good time with her doing other things, and I wouldn’t trade that time for an easier time un-decorating.
She’s now 6 hours away, and I already miss her terribly. My son lives here still, which is wonderful. But he’s a full time student and works about 30 hours a week, so I don’t see him much, either. Pretty much just dinner a couple of nights a week. But I’ll take it.
Enjoy the Christmas lights as long as you can stand it. My house looks dreary without the decorations.
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Ah good! I found a round about, “back door” way to reach your blog, Staci. I’m sorry I haven’t been around much. I haven’t been able to access your blog. All I get is a blank page. I looked you up on Facebook, and clicked a link you had posted there — and was finally able to get to the blog.
I hope you have a sunny week. We’re still reeling from the combined effects of the prolonged shutdown, and now a huge snow storm.
Hugs on the wing.
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Wow. That’s diligence. I’m so sorry, Teagan. I wish I knew how to fix that.
Two storms on your horizon — shutdown and snow. Hoping you weather both safely and quickly.
Thanks for trying so hard to drop by!
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Hmmm… I just got her via the WP email about this comment… Maybe my system is not working with the Gravatar. Oh, I give up trying to understand all the WP gremlins. Cheers.
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They are gremlins, aren’t they? Probably best to stay away from water after midnight.
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Hmm… is it water or food? I can’t even remember. They say memory is the second thing to go.
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Glad you had a wonderful time with Sammi. Those times are precious and you both deserve them. Gush all you want, It sounds like you have to great kids!
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I did enjoy my time with her. But my house is a disaster because I put time with her ahead of chores and I’m so behind on everything. It was worth it, though. I’ll never get that time back, so it was good to use it wisely.
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Reblogged this on Campbells World and commented:
Lots of good information here.
It’s up to you to look for and find what you need.
Happy hunting and please do give this a share.
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Thanks so much for sharing!
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Reblogged this on The Write Stuff and commented:
Staci Troilo’s “Author Inspiration and This Week’s Writing Links” is a great way to help us catch up on things we may have missed. Hope you’ll check it out, and help spread the word. Thanks!
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Thanks for the reblog!
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Once again, your weekly post will help me catch up on things I missed while spending five full, back-breaking days packing up Christmas for its return to the attic. Hopefully, the upcoming week will be fairly normal and I’ll get lots of writing done. Sharing these great links, and that wonderfully inspiring quote! Great post, Staci! 🙂 ❤
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I did a lot of Christmas tear-down, too. I’m looking forward to settling back into a routine, but I fear I have too much on my plate for that to happen soon. I’m glad I was able to get you back on track, though.
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Reblogged this on Nicholas C. Rossis and commented:
Staci’s writing links of the week
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Much appreciated, Nicholas!
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🙂
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Thank you, Traci.
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I miss seeing you and them. Having family around is the best.
Thanks for sharing the links. They are very helpful.
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She and I were just talking about holidays when we still lived in Pennsylvania. Those were the best. I love family events and wish we could attend more of them. ALL of them.
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Thanks for the links and sharing your good feelings about your children.
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Thanks for your patience with me, John. I try not to gush about them too much, but sometimes I can’t stop myself.
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You have every right to gush. When kids make you proud there is no better feeling cause you know you have been the kind of mama they needed throughput their lives.
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Aw, thanks, John. That warms my heart.
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You should be a proud momma, your kids sound well-grounded and as bright as their parents 🙂
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Well, now I’m blushing. Thank you, Jacquie.
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Never apologize for giving us your thoughts about your boy and girl. Us parents can relate. My girls are ages 16 and 14. Soon I will be where you’re at. I miss them already.
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I appreciate that. Your girls are getting to that age where they really start stretching their wings. It’s so hard to give them their freedom when you’re trying to snatch every last second you can. Enjoy them, Bryan.
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Rave on about your kids, Staci! We had a few wonderful days with both of our sons here, but it was over too quickly.
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I’m glad you had that time. It did go by fast, didn’t it? My daughter and I were talking last night, and even she couldn’t believe break was over. Sometimes time is cruel.
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And through it all you’ve kept busy. Off to SE next.
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Too busy, I fear. I wish I had spent more time with her. But my obligations didn’t stop just because she was in town. I’m already looking forward to her next visit.
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My daughter’s visits are often rushed these days too. I’d like to spend a little more time with her, but I’ll take what I can get. Makes me glad for all the times I let her disrupt my projects and talk my ears off.
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I agree. I didn’t totally take her break off with her, but I did take a lot of time. And despite how backed up I am now, I can’t regret a second of it.
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Thanks for including my links in your post.
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My pleasure, Don.
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Reblogged this on Author Don Massenzio and commented:
I’m honored to be featured in this post with writing links from Staci Troilo’s blog.
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Thanks for sharing!
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You’re welcome.
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Feel free to rave on about the kids. We’re all either someone’s kid, someone’s parent or both, so we know how you feel 🙂
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Excellent point, Nicholas. Thanks.
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Both a happy and a sad time, Staci. Here’s wishing you and your family all good things this years. Thanks for the great set of links. 🙂
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Happy and sad is right. I’m trying to focus on the happy, but I’m not having much luck.
Wishing you and yours all good things this year, too.
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I understand you wanting your kids to be successful and have lots of opportunities–to do this sometimes that means going away to college. My son is doing that too and is a 9 hour drive away. Always hard to say goodbye after a visit. I spend every moment I can with him when he visits. Luckily both of my girls live locally. Thanks for the links and hope you have a fantastic weekend!
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That is hard. I wish (for both of us) that their respective colleges were only an hour drive. But we don’t really have a say. All we can do is enjoy them when we can. I’m glad your girls are local. That eases the pain. Happy weekend.
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Not being a mum I can’t imagine what it’s like having to ‘let your kids go’ at some point to make their own lives, but I do remember the look on my mums face when it came time for me to leave… and the rib-crushing hug I got from her when I left 🤗
You go on ahead and be proud of your kids; it’s a refreshing change to hear a proud parent, not a parent grumbling about their kid’s this or that. 👍
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I gave my daughter that same rib-crushing hug. At least three of them, maybe more. I think I hugged her at the bedroom door, in the hallway, and at the garage door. And a few times last night before bed. I am feeling battered and hollow today. Spent most of the morning in bed with a migraine that was probably brought on by a night of stress. I just heard from her; she arrived safely. At least I can stop worrying about the drive. In the rain. Which is turning to snow. But I digress… she’s there, safe and sound.
I am very proud of my kids. That doesn’t mean there isn’t an occasional grumble. No one’s perfect (me, them, or anyone else). But I never understand the people who want to publicly share the bad stuff. I’d rather build someone up than tear someone down.
Wishing you a wonderful weekend, Denise.
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Sorry, Jess. In my befuddled state, I combined my answer to you and Denise. See? I’ve lost the ability to concentrate on this stuff because my head and heart are with my daughter. I’ll get sorted out, though. Eventually.
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Hahaha, no worries Staci – I know what that’s like 🤗
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And I promised myself I’d get myself together this year. It’s barely the middle of the first week of the year!
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